New Year, New Relationship? Here’s How To Craft Your Perfect Partner Manifestation List.
It’s a brand new year! If you’re looking to find your most aligned partnership this year, then here are a few tips on how to craft your perfect partner manifestation list.
Why Do We Create Lists?
Lists help us align our intentions and our focus. We are incredibly powerful creators and manifesters. We can bring almost anything we want into our reality because we are the creators of it!
Utilizing lists, visualization and other tactics and techniques simply helps us hone our skills. It gives us proof of how powerful we are and helps us increase our confidence and align our intention with our highest good.
Creating manifestation lists is supposed to be fun! We are learning how to be the master painters on the canvas of our lives. So don’t forget to include the most important manifestation component- JOY!
Creativity, imagination, and inspiration are all powerful tools so use them!
What Do You Want To Feel?
We can craft the perfect list, write out the perfect partner attributes, and even bring in someone who checks every item on our list. But if we don’t feel connected to them or the life we are building with them, then what’s the point?
It’s a story we know all probably know, where we just don’t feel “it”, or the “spark.” We bring in everything we thought we wanted–only to discover it doesn’t make us feel how we thought it would.
So why not start with the most important…How Do You Want To Feel?
Examples:
“Adored, celebrated, appreciated, and safe.”
“Intellectually connected and stimulated. “
” Physically attracted(and attractive), passionate, and connected.”
Get clear on what it is that you want to FEEL and then start crafting your list from there.
What Do You Truly Value?
As you begin to get clear on what you want to feel, you might begin to see a pattern in what you truly value, both in your own life and in your relationships.
For example as a Scorpio Moon, loyalty is one of the foremost attributes I value. It took me a LONG time to prioritize this one. Yet when I started to get clear on what I wanted to FEEL, then it became oh so obvious.
You can also look at your own sense of personal integrity. What are your personal values? What are the things you are not willing to compromise in your life and the things that mean the most to you?
(Your Astrology can help with getting clear on this–>Find Your Sun, Moon and Rising Signs Here)
Finding a partner that aligns and agrees with your values, is one of the keys to long-term success in relationships.
What Are Your Ideal Attributes?
Attributes can be a bit of a struggle for people–either we get too specific(has to look like this, drive this type of car, make this much money, etc.) or we are too general(kind, good-looking, friendly, etc.) When creating a list, we want to find the middle ground.
Think of it like looking at homes, for example. You could find the nicest house, with all the best views and appliances that match your desired description yet still not feel connected to it. It’s not home.
On the other hand, you can’t just give the realtor only vague details about what you want, or you’ll waste a lot of time on houses that aren’t the right fit at all.
(You can discover some ideal partner traits based on your Zodiac sign here!)
So although you might not know every detail about your ideal partner, you probably do know some things that truly feel aligned, authentic, and bring you joy.
What Does Your Ideal Life Look Like?
The ideal lifestyle is actually more important than you might think. Far from being fantasy it actually ties into values, finances, and many more essential aspects of long-term compatibility.
Asking yourself the following questions is a great place to start:
- What is an ideal day for you?
- What things are most fun to you?
- If you had unlimited free time–what would you do?
- If you had unlimited resources–what would you do?
Here’s why this one matters–
I once had a partner who loved music festivals and concerts. I like live music on occasion but I began to age out of music festivals.
He however really valued them, spending his free time, resources, and money on them. He would often travel to attend them– the trips would be multiple days long and cost a few thousand dollars apiece.
To me, it felt like an unnecessary expense. It just wasn’t my priority or how I wanted to spend my time. It was his ideal life, but it wasn’t mine.
The more committed the partnership, the more these types of differences matter. When you are casually dating those lifestyle differences might not loom as large, but think of when you have combined finances, expenses, or responsibilities(children, cars, homes,), etc.
So just be sure to find a partner who shares your love of travel, or music festivals, or lazy Sundays at home–or whatever your best life looks like!
To Sum It All Up…
Crafting manifestation lists is a popular way to practice your manifestation skills and hone your intentions and focus.
I encourage people to think of it more like a fun game, than a serious, written-in-stone endeavor.
Bringing a sense of joy and lightness to it helps elevate your vibration, and reminds you that this is a skill, something you can practice, hone, and get more comfortable with.
